Monthly Archives: April 2011

A Ritual to Read to Each Other

If you don’t know the kind of person I am
and I don’t know the kind of person you are
a pattern that others made may prevail in the world
and following the wrong god home we may miss our star.

For there is many a small betrayal in the mind,
a shrug that lets the fragile sequence break
sending with shouts the horrible errors of childhood
storming out to play through the broken dyke.

And as elephants parade holding each elephant’s tail,
but if one wanders the circus won’t find the park,
I call it cruel and maybe the root of all cruelty
to know what occurs but not recognize the fact.

And so I appeal to a voice, to something shadowy,
a remote important region in all who talk:
though we could fool each other, we should consider–
lest the parade of our mutual life get lost in the dark.

For it is important that awake people be awake,
or a breaking line may discourage them back to sleep;
the signals we give–yes or no, or maybe–
should be clear: the darkness around us is deep.

~William Stafford


Our relationships depend upon such things as are found in this poem. The knowing, and the wanting to know the other person. The vigilance to be aware and knowing of those small betrayals that defend us from each other, and if left unknown, may break us. How important it is to be awake, if… awake we are. To maintain the heart and life of the relationship by being true to ourselves, in the context of being true to the relationship.
There must be better commentary on this poem and its depths. Perhaps to leave it just stand on its own should be sufficient. And it is. I wanted to add my amen to the thoughts told here as a way to assimilate them.

Some thoughts on Spiral Dynamics

Some morning thoughts on Spiral Dynamics solicited on reading some posts from the SD community. And in particular this thought from D.Beck (citing C.Graves) “[we] are [able to] recalibrate our entire world when life conditions overwhelm the existing patterns”

This key thought about the way people organize and how they change the structures and basis of the organization is found in the general model of Spiral Dynamics. Largely a model that describes the adaptations of humans to new meta ‘life conditions’ as they emerge out of the existing structures of relationship and understanding of the world.

It is dynamic in the sense that it describes and predicts a Tao swing from a broadly individualistic center to a broadly group/community center – each movement incorporating the lessons of the prior modalities, but also in the movement, over time, creating new conundrums which emerge out of the new organization.

We humans do not remain at a functional static level of experience and/or existence. Always moving, testing, inquiring, searching for ways to meet the needs and longings of each of our multiple levels of awareness and physical needs. It is this compulsion that is the engine of the dynamo that is the human spirit. It is this ability to “to re calibrate our entire world when life conditions overwhelm the existing patterns” that makes humans so interesting. Even rising to the lofty place of “being the consciousness of the planet”, as James Lovelock put it recently.

It is spiral because the issues that are encountered by humans in this world are essentially the same, but have different inflections and details depending on the “life conditions” that are in force when they are engaged.  Similar in terms of being at similar places in the circle of life, but spiral as they are encountered at different levels. Levels distinguished by unique particulars of complexity and organization and paradigmatic context. (For example: The questions of needing food and shelter are similar for the tribal peoples of Africa living on the veldt as well as the modern urban apartment dweller. But the details and complexities of each system are very different requiring very different patterns, systems and knowledge’s to negotiate each context.)

These processes can be seen to function in individuals as well as more generally in large historical human development over centuries. In each domain, from the small to the large, the individual to the national, and even the global context, there are forces of creativity and a restlessness that are not capable, or willing to “leave well enough alone”.

As each of these centers of life undulate through the pursuit of meaning, understanding, “peak experience”, satisfaction they will be faced with the same questions over and over, but just from ever more complex levels. What is the pattern of organization as a community? What is the pattern of organization that is me as an individual? Always seeking to understand the underlying “I”. Sometimes it seems clear who that “I” is. And in that moment perhaps it becomes a little less clear who “We” are as a community. And visa versa. Sometimes it is clear who we are as a community. Think of times in western history when ones identity was folded into ones relationship to the church, or ones feudal lord. Or the current “individualistic” western meme contrasted with the more traditional community/group identity of Eastern frames of reference.

In these conditions/states the identity of the group is well established, and the inklings about who “I” am as an individual can be experienced as a radical act of protest. How does what “I know about it is in  our group/community: A sort of Group “I”,  now square up and incorporate with what I now know of “I” as a separate entity. How does “I” fit into the context of “Us”? And that sets off a new inquiry.

New in the sense that it is unsettled in the current context, and the ready answers of the past are insufficient to the present. Same question. Different Context, or Paradigm from which it is being asked. Later, that question will be more or less answered. And the patterns developed to engage the inquiry will begin to be insufficient to the now emerging question: Who are all these individuals in terms of the community…. And a new level of inquiry begins.

Same questions. Different starting point. The Tao of existence. The Tao of inquiry.

New. Old. Same. Different. Patterns within patterns.

In these transitions of growth from one clarity into a state of non-clarity on the way to a new clarity, there are, broadly speaking, two responses/reactions. These transition times are epochs of serious perturbation as people and groups have to make a decision whether to go forward into the unknown or remain in the thrall and comfort of the well known; if not worn out well known.

In these periods, and I suggest we are in such a period of turbulent transition now, these very opposite forces lay claim to the “truth”. The “middle” essentially vanishes into extreme polarities and points of view. Some saying “We must look forward to find the answer to our challenges”, as A.Lincoln put it in his day: “…As our times are new we must think anew, and disenthrall ourselves from the creeds of the past…”. Others unrelentingly holding out that the way it is is just fine, it just needs to be reformed. Maybe cleaned up. Maybe just try harder to do it and do it better. “If we would just quit being sinners, hold fast and true to the old and established ways (..The Founding Fathers The Old Time Religion.) and shape up everything will be ok”. And this polarity gives rise to what is called in the current environment the “conservative” or right wing position of fundamentalism, and the presumed contrary position of “liberals” or the “left wing” position of progressive. (Of course these are not the only poles of this dynamic. And indeed these political manifestations of the “dynamic” are not even the most important. But they do occupy a large amount of the conscious attention of the nation and the world.)

The Spiral Dynamic model now predicts an emergent condition that integrates the lessons/learnings from the entire past history of humankind’s questions and answer to the fundamental questions of “Who am I” and “Who are we”, “How do we/I survive?” “What is happening around me?”. The model suggests that the levels of experience with these questions has led through various modalities of organization of relationships. All necessary in their time. All no longer sufficient to contend with and encompass the challenges and needs of the present. Now, again, we are in a transition period from This to That. What “That” will be is as yet unclear. But some of the general qualities and outlines are coming clear.

Perhaps the most essential quality of the emerging meme is systemic integration of all that has come before. After all the fights and struggles, the wars and the killings; enlightenments and learnings, and whatever else it takes and will take to get thru this particular transition; eventually all of the past human experience will synthesize into a new, larger comprehension, more complete and complex organization. One large enough to contain the questions and breakdowns of the prior condition. One sufficient enough to be the basis for the next level of human endeavor.

Nation of Laws. Manning. Obama. What now?

This is a damning paragraph,and reminder that there are forces in play that are not apparent, but are controlling.  

But even more fascinating is Obama’s invocation of America’s status as a “nation of laws” to justify why Manning must be punished. That would be a very moving homage to the sanctity of the rule of law — if not for the fact that the person invoking it is the same one who has repeatedly engaged in the most extraordinary efforts to shield Bush officials from judicial scrutiny, investigation, and prosecution of every kind for their war crimes and surveillance felonies. Indeed, the Orwellian platitude used by Obama to justify that immunity — Look Forward, Not Backward — is one of the greatest expressions of presidential lawlessness since Richard Nixon told David Frost that “it’s not illegal if the President does it.”  -Glen Grenwald

We are a nation governed by laws. But we are also governed by something deeper when those same laws implicate certain people.

What Manning did in releasing those docs, if that is what is finally settled to be the case, is minor…. Minor… Compared to what Bush and his company unleashed on the nation, and the world.   And not just a tick of bad judgement as they are attempting to re-write the history now.  But considered, intentional, lying and breaking of the laws.  Repeatedly and shamelessly.

And

Without consequence.